Maaf Sepertinya Menjadi Kata yang Paling Sulit

Sebenarnya, Elton John benar. “Maaf” tampaknya menjadi penemuan paling sulit bagi banyak orang. Sejujurnya, itu tampak lebih kuat dalam beberapa substansi lingkungan daripada yang lain. Itu adalah satu hal yang telah menggangguku sejak lama. Begitu layak, secara signifikan saat ini, bahwa saya bahkan lebih suka membangun pena ke kertas – atau jari ke keyboard – dan menulis kata-kata kasar ini (alias posting weblog).

Sejak saya tinggal di sini, saya terus berjuang dengan kapasitas yang diajarkan oleh banyak orang dengan menyatakan “Maaf.” Berikut adalah beberapa contoh yang saya temui benar saat ini:

1. Di sebuah kafe

Saya: Bisakah saya memenangkan gelas yang sekarang? Yang ini kotor.

Pelayan: Saya akan memenangkan Anda saat ini.

(Atau lebih buruk bisu, tidak ada sama sekali, namun ia benar mengganti gelas)

2. Di sebuah kafe

Aku, aku suka salmon.

Pelayan: Tidak ada lagi salmon hari ini.

3. Di toko sepatu

Saya: Hentikan itu mungkin Anda akan menginginkan sepatu ini dalam ukuran 41?

Asisten: Pengukuran 39 adalah yang terbesar.

Mengapa mereka tidak bisa lagi berkata, “Maafkan aku …”?

Ini adalah data pencarian dari saya telah bingung tentang berulang-ulang. Saya terus-menerus diberitahu bahwa ini berdasarkan mitos orang yang percaya bahwa menyatakan “maaf” berarti bahwa mereka secara pribadi telah melakukan satu hal yang terkenal.

Hentikan kami harap Anda menangkan ini dengan benar!

Mengucapkan, “Saya minta maaf” ketika gelas saya kotor adalah hal kategoris untuk diklaim. Apa yang Anda dengan sangat cerdas bisa nyatakan adalah, “Maaf ini terjadi.” Atau “Maaf, Anda membeli gelas yang tidak bersih.” Anda tidak lagi menyatakan, “Saya menyesal tidak mencuci gelas dengan cerdas, dan itu salah saya.”

Mengucapkan, “Maafkan aku” ketika tidak ada lagi salmon yang tersisa, akan menyarankan Anda menunjukkan penyesalan atau kekecewaan tentang satu hal. Anda tidak lagi menegaskan bahwa Anda bertanggung jawab karena tidak ada salmon.

Berikut adalah dua contoh lagi:

1. Berbicara dengan seorang teman

Buddy: Anda pincang. Apa yang terkenal

Saya: Saya benar tersandung dan jatuh. Sebenarnya lutut saya sakit.

Sobat: Aiyah! Kenapa kamu begitu ceroboh?

2. Untuk seorang kolega

Saya: Saya sangat sakit pada akhir pekan dengan migrain yang terkenal.

Rekan kerja: Pekerjaan yang benar dulu menjadi akhir pekan dan juga Anda dapat bersantai.

Mengapa oh mengapa orang-orang ini tidak dapat lagi menjelaskan, “Maafkan saya”?

Mengucapkan, “Maafkan saya” tidak akan menyarankan Anda bertanggung jawab atas kejatuhan saya. Mungkin akan lebih baik menyarankan Anda merasa iba pada saya.

Mengucapkan, “Maafkan saya” tidak akan menyarankan Anda menjadi penyebab migrain saya. Mungkin akan lebih baik menyarankan Anda merasa mengajar untuk saya.

Dan yang ini mengambil kue …

Inilah yang terjadi ketika saya menulis surat kepada seorang konsumen yang dulu sudah lewat karena membayar faktur kami, dan tidak lagi untuk pertama kalinya. Berikut adalah kutipan dari jawabannya:

Sayangnya, ada proses hidup yang dapat melewati manajemen saya.

Saya akan mempercepat pembangunan yang bisa dilakukan pada beberapa tingkat penyesuaian tersebut.

Gagasan Anda akan layak disukai.

Hentikan Anda melihat masalahnya di sini? “Sayangnya” tampaknya menyarankan, “Terlalu terkenal”. Jika dia berkata, “Saya minta maaf tentang ini”, mungkin akan lebih baik menyarankan, “Saya peduli.”

Jika penulis telah memperbaikinya segera setelah dalam serangkaian email ini mengatakan, “Saya sangat menyesal tentang ini”, mungkin mungkin dalam kenyataannya terdiri dari terbukti saya bahwa dia mengerti apa yang saya akan dengan cara dan perasaan mengajar dan berbelas kasih atas kesedihan saya. Mungkin lebih baik bahkan meyakinkan saya bahwa dia peduli. Karena itu, saya mungkin merasa lebih baik, meskipun ada penundaan.

Jadi tolong …

Maaf tidak lagi memilih untuk menjadi yang paling sulit ditemukan!

Tentang kami: Tolong beri tahu anak muda Anda tentang pentingnya penemuan, “maaf”, dan banyak artinya. Selain itu, ajarkan kepada mereka tentang implikasi menegaskan penemuan, dan tidak lagi menegaskan penemuan.

Pengusaha: Harap jelaskan bahwa pekerja Anda berpengetahuan luas dalam hal signifikansi penemuan, “maaf”, dan metode yang mengharuskannya teratur dalam pengangkutan pelanggan. Dan jelas implikasi menyatakannya dan tidak lagi menegaskannya.

Jangan lagi melanjutkan membiarkan “Maaf” menjadi penemuan paling sulit untuk diklaim. Mari kita bekerja bersama dan menciptakan “maaf”, sebuah klaim yang sangat langsung dan layak untuk diklaim! Mari kita mulai dengan penemuan kategoris untuk mengklaim!

Fungsi apa yang Anda jelaskan? Saya akan menikmati umpan balik dan saran Anda tentang penggunaan “maaf” di bagian lingkungan Anda. Ditambah setiap contoh harus selalu ada kemungkinan Anda ingin mendengar, atau tidak lagi mendengar, penemuan, “maaf” saat ini.

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